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Cooperative Games and the Science of Sharing

January 19, 2015 by Suzanne Lyons


A board game with owls and trees on it.
This blog post is a review of the exhibit The Science of Sharing, Investigating Competition, Cooperation, and Social Interaction which is currently on display at The Exploratorium in San Francisco.

Bravo to the Exploratorium for creating this exhibit! The Exploratorium has always been the place to go in The City for super fun and interactive exhibits relating to science and perception. The Tactile Dome, for instance, is a pitch-black geodesic dome filled with weird things to touch as you grope through it in the dark. A board game with owls and trees on it.The Science of Sharing invites the visitor explore social space rather than physical space. The question at the heart of the exhibit as well as  at the heart of CooperativeGames.com—is whether ‘tis nobler to Cooperate or Compete. Exploration in The Science of Sharing is through hands-on activities, thoughtful displays, clever conundrums, and yes-games! It’s rare in our hyper competitive society for any public institution to facilitate reflection on the assumed merits of competition. Competition is a sacred cow (or maybe gaudy wallpaper?) that is pervasive yet almost never critically examined. Kudos to the Exploratorium for breaking the ice.

I enjoyed the installation Collaborative Shapes. It consists of a rope posted to a backdrop. Visitors are asked to pair up and try to make a shape with the rope—a square, crescent, etc.) with their eyes closed. A board game with owls and trees on it.Partners can talk and communicate any way they wish EXCEPT that eyes need to stay shut. I tried this and watched others do it too. The shapes turned out pathetic! The moral of the story: Cooperative tasks are difficult when partners don’t share complete information. For cooperation to work, everyone needs to have access to essential information relevant to the situation at hand.

 Team Snake is also really cool. It’s a cooperative digital game and seemed to be one of the most popular exhibits. The game goal is to work together to keep a fast-moving snake alive and growing. Coordination is required to feed him apples he needs to live and grow and avoid hitting the walls of his container. A board game with owls and trees on it.This is an active game that requires group strategy and fosters camaraderie. For lots of visitors kids to adults, the game was big fun!

 In a different vein, Red/Blue is a competitive game in the exhibit. Like Team Snake, the game is a very inviting digital game that prompted a lot of visitor participation the day I was there. A board game with owls and trees on it.Though Red/Blue was popular and fun according to the visitors I asked about it, its vibe was completely different than Team Snake. Instead of relaxed smiles and collegial attitudes, players displayed a fiendish twinkle in their eyes. In Red/Blue, it’s time to go all out to beat your opponent and prove yourself. When the game was over, I noticed a certain awkwardness and lingering aggressiveness as friends were—even if briefly—turned into rivals. It takes a little while to get over competitive encounters like this where one player is encouraged to thoroughly trounce another. One wonders about the long term psychological and social effects of a steady diet of competitive games such as this. A sign posted near Red/Blue explains the social risks of competition…

The Science of Sharing exhibit featured several riddles for contemplation. Consider the Public Goods Dilemma, shown below.A board game with owls and trees on it.

On my way out of The Science Of Sharing exhibit, I walked by the Give and Take Table. It consists of a great big silver bowl reflecting the people staring into it—revealing their thoughts as well as their faces. Instructions ask visitors to add or remove whatever they wish to the bowl. I sat and watched what happened there for a while.

I wish I could report the bowl was made overflowing with an abundance of meaningful and treasured items that visitors contributed to the commons…maybe drawings, poems, trinkets, money? Or for real trust—how about something edible? I guess we are a ways from that ideal though, at least at the time that I was observing. People, I hate to tell you, but what I saw in the Sharing Bowl consisted of a few pennies, two dry beans (they looked like pinto beans), a few pieces of wrinkled paper, a couple small beads, an eraser, and one plastic Radio Shack gift card (the big question: Was it depleted or did it have significant value ?)A board game with owls and trees on it.

I saw four young men, probably in their 20’s, come up to the bowl. Two of the fellows debated giving/taking but they were hesitant–cautious. Deciding whether to make any kind of donation or trade launched them into extensive analysis of the pro’s and con’s but all comments seemed to be coming strictly from the head with no heart factored in. Worse, one of the fellows said jokingly but seriously that he felt the “smartest†thing to do would be to take everything out of the bowl for himself and not put anything in. He’s no fool; why not take everything you can whenever you can in your own “rational” self interest? The fourth fellow didn’t say much but squirmed uncomfortably. If he objected to this demonstration of The Tragedy of the Commons, perhaps he did not have the words to articulate his concerns. Apparently, I caught the Give and Take Table at an off moment! Personally, I don’t think we are strictly rational beings in the sense that we always act in our material self-interest. Instead, we have prosocial drives and feelings that are inherent and can be cultivated or discouraged.  (Note there COULD have been an altruist to the table. Maybe the Radio Shack gift card was actually loaded! An unresolved mystery…)

Anyway, I have an experiment idea for the folks at the Exploratorium: Let’s put the Give and Take Table next to Team Snake and see what ends up in the Sharing Bowl. Then let’s move it next to Red/Blue and see what happens. If results are similar to the other research comparing cooperative with competitive games, we’d expect Team Snake to inspire a great increase of bounty in the bowl. On the other hand, a bowl placed next to Red/Blue would likely not even elicit two pinto beans.

For more information about The Science of Sharing including where, when, and how to see it visit the Exploratorium website at http://www.exploratorium.edu/visit/west-gallery/science-of-sharing To learn more about cooperative games, to purchase them, or get free cooperative games, visit CooperativeGames.com at https://cooperativegames.com/

 

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Cooperative Games with Blocks

December 8, 2014 by Suzanne Lyons


Do you remember playing with blocks as a wee one?

A board game with owls and trees on it.
Blocks for Cooperative Play

I remember many peaceful hours spent playing with them. I loved blocks because they facilitate imaginary play and physical play too. It’s fun to practice eye hand coordination, explore spatial relations, and use small motor skills at the same time you build crazy castles, tall towers and all manner of imaginary things. I’m sure blocks must help kids develop mechanical skills too. Blocks are fun for mixed-age play since older children and adults love them just as much as very young children do. Blocks are a noncompetitive toy. Children can play individually with blocks or cooperatively by building structures together. The simplest cooperative game  with blocks I know of is a construction game. It goes like this…it’s a classic and always SO FUN! Just build the highest vertical tower you can, taking turns. Eventually the tower will crash! But it’s fun building it together, encouraging one another and offering helpful suggestions as in all cooperative games. Now here is the serious part. Gwen Dewar PhD at ParentingScience.com reports a study on using cooperative play with blocks to help autistic kids. Playing together cooperatively with blocks helped the autistic kids make more social language improvements than being directly coached in the social use of language. See http://www.parentingscience.com/toy-blocks.html . Are you psyched about blocks and looking for a good set? I sell blocks at CooperativeGames.com since they are such a great and versatile noncompetitive toy. Click here to shop  https://cooperativegames.com/ I chose the Green Toys brand since Green Toys products are all made from recycled milk jugs in the USA. They are safe for kids and good for the environment, sturdy, and easy for little hands to manipulate. In honor of this blog on #cooperative games with blocks, and in honor of the holidays, Green Toys blocks are now the Deal of the Day at CooperativeGames.com at a whopping 40% off the regular price! Please share with parents and teachers, especially those who work with autistic kids. Thanks and Enjoy! From Suzanne Lyons at CooperativeGames.com.

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Cooperative Games Teach Cooperation. But What’s So Great About Cooperation?

December 2, 2014 by Suzanne Lyons


Hi Conscious Cooperators! Suzanne Lyons here, doing my bit to help usher in a new era of peace and sustainable common sense in these troubled times. CooperativeGames.com is my contribution, however humble, to the CHANGE that is coming and needs to come. I am a science educator by training, and a science textbook author. Pearson publishes my textbook, Conceptual Integrated Science, which is sold around the world. Yay but not enough. Education, I now see, is more urgent than cognitive expansion. We are the problem and we are the solution as far as the Earth and our own destiny on it goes. A board game with owls and trees on it.What the world needs now is love sweet love. But if we can’t quite get there, what we need AT LEAST is the ability to work together toward the common good. That’s called enlightened self-interest and it’s essentially cooperation. As President Eisenhower once said: “Though force can protect in an emergency, only justice, fairness, consideration, and cooperation can finally lead men to the dawn of eternal peace.†Let’s break it down. Why is cooperation so vital in life? What are its specific benefits? And why should we be learning how to cooperate through play with cooperative games?

Cooperation is essential because it helps solve problems. As we say, “two heads are better than oneâ€. Cooperation brings the skills and talents of multiple stake holders to bear on any given situation. Cooperation makes it more efficient to get work done too. Many jobs are so big that they can only be accomplished through group effort. As we say, “many hands make light workâ€.

Cooperation is essential because it promotes healthy relationships. When we cooperate, we share, and as we know “sharing is caringâ€.â€Â  Cooperating and sharing elicit emotions of appreciation, gratitude, and trust as we help one another. These positive emotions underlie social bonding and healthy relationships.

Cooperation is also important because it’s the foundation of equity. Cooperation, in the sense we are talking about here, involves decision-making based on mutual respect and participation. It’s different than obedience. It’s motivated by the desire to listen to one another, to be fair and get along. Cooperation is the means by which equitable social arrangements can be forged and maintained.

If cooperation is of great value, and if cooperative games can teach cooperation through the powerful medium of play, then surely cooperative games are a beneficial teaching tool for our times. Hmmm…competition reinforces the us-versus-them mindset yet cooperation brings about peace. Maybe it’s time to rethink the commonplace idea that competition is natural and necessary. Maybe it’s time to give cooperation-and cooperative play-a chance.

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Cooperative Games Use the Power of Play to Teach

November 23, 2014 by Suzanne Lyons


 

A board game with owls and trees on it.
Teaching with Cooperative Games Instills Prosocial Skills

Play is a child’s workshop; it is through play that children learn how to be in the world. Much current scholarship documents the close link between play and learning. For children across cultures, learning is achieved through play.1 Hunter-gatherer children play field games that prepare them to hunt. North American children, on the other hand, play with toy cars, plastic tools, fake money, miniature kitchens and doll houses in preparation for their adult roles. Further, play isn’t unique to humans. Mammals in general learn the skills they will use as adults by playing when they are young. Little foxes playfully pounce to practice predation. Fawns run and kick their long legs to rehearse the survival skill of fleeing. Young ones everywhere need to play in order to learn the skills they will use in adulthood.

A teacher’s gratifying and important role is to nourish the inevitable learning process of youth, to channel it in ways that lead to healthy and happy lives. Since play is a chief mode by which children learn, it’s important for us educators to keep an eye on what kinds of play opportunities we offer kids in school. With a bit of consciousness and care, teachers can set children up to learn beneficial skills through play at recess and during academic class time too. We are remiss if we ignore the opportunity to foster positive skills through play, for the play yard and classroom can become breeding grounds for harmful habits and negative social behaviors when meanness and aggression are allowed to take hold.  

Play is normal, natural, and free. One of the basic attributes of play is that the outcome doesn’t matter. In the realm of play we escape the pressures of real life. We can take risks, experiment, goof around, relax, and try something new. On the other hand, games have structure and rules. For this reason, games are more tightly tied to the social context than other forms of play such as imaginative play. When a child plays a game, it’s inevitable that he will follow—and learn—a set of social rules, a code of conduct. The wise caregiver recognizes that children are learning the rules of social engagement during games no matter what. So we may as well pay attention to this and be sure the learning is what we want to impart. We don’t want to unconsciously foster games that reflect and reinforce negative cultural patterns. We do want to expose children to games that will allow them to learn how to be happy, healthy, and good to one another. Cooperative games do just this. 

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Great Cooperative Game for Kids: The Yoga Garden Game

July 25, 2014 by Suzanne Lyons


A board game with owls and trees on it.
Yoga Garden Game, a cooperative board game that teaches yoga and getting along together at the same time

One of my top-selling cooperative games for kids is the delightful Yoga Garden Game, a cooperative board game for ages 4 and up. Parents and teachers: this game teaches yoga and cooperation, is beautiful to look at, and fun to play. Why not get in the game yourself and share the gentle joy of cooperative yoga with your kids?

Yoga Garden Game, A Great Cooperative Board Game for Kids

Players work together to move the bumblebee through the garden and plant all the flowers before night comes and it’s time for bed. The rules are quite easy to follow, and with a little practice kids can actually play it on their own: players roll a die to move the bee around the board. Depending on where the bee lands, players may plant flowers, perform a yoga pose as illustrated on the yoga cards, invent their own yoga pose….or they may land on a space that puts stars in the sky and brings on night fall.

A board game with owls and trees on it.Why I Recommend this Cooperative Board Game for Kids

I love several things about this gentle cooperative board game for kids-and for you parents and teachers (who will surely enjoy looking on if not actually playing the game):

* The art on the game board is so beautiful … it shows a garden, the sky, and has such a peaceful feeling that it makes me feel connected to nature just looking at it!

* It teaches yoga in a very accessible and fun way for kids as young as 4 years old. Yoga is great for kids, as studies now show. I appreciate that the rules remind children “Don’t forget to breathe†as they practice their poses. The yoga game cards have

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The illustrated yoga game cards teach children yoga poses. Young kids can look at the picture while an adult or older child reads the steps.

pictures of the poses as well as simple step-by-step directions anyone could follow. The game is produced by YogaKids, a mission driven company all about teaching yoga to kids.

They are sincere in their mission …and you can tell! http://www.yogakids.com/

* As a cooperative board game, kids have to work together to accomplish a common goal. No one loses and has their feelings hurt. This game works in just the opposite way compared to a competitive board game: Here, everyone wins because everyone has a good time trying to move the bumblebee around the board and plant flowers, learning yoga all the while. If the game goal is not achieved, and nighttime comes before the flowers are planted, no matter. The group can play again another day and see if they can meet the challenge. As all cooperative games show, winning is more fun when it is shared, and losing is much less disappointing when we are all in the same boat. In a cooperative game, we can practice winning or losing, having fun and learning together!

CooperativeGames.com Deal of the Day

This is one of my best selling cooperative board games at CooperativeGames.com.  My customers are all smiles about it. To share the joy, I’m offering a 10% discount on the game right now. Go to our Deal of the Day Page at CooperativeGames.com. To see more and purchase the Yoga Garden Game, click  http://shop.cooperativegames.com/dealoftheday.asp

To shop our entire selection of cooperative board games, games for young and old alike,  go to http://shop.cooperativegames.com/

Thanks and Enjoy!

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Kids learning yoga in the classroom with the Yoga Garden Game

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